When you are not in the mood.

In psychology, we were taught a lot about the mind, emotions, mood and yeah mood swings and as a person I realize how our emotions can make or break us. Before you continue reading, check the picture.

Now let's talk. Emotions huh!  Y'all know how that goes especially when you are in a relationship. It goes high and low. You might be having a bad day and your partner wants you getting excited over something nice that happened and when you don't show the excitement, they feel something is wrong.

Hmm!  Ladies, we love attention you know and sometimes we make a big mistake by equating the emotions or response of our partner with the love they have for us.  Girl, give the brother some space, cut the slacks. He might be thinking of his business or something and you want to be hearing only love talk, well talk won't always pay bills you know.... I think I am guilty too. Lolz

Well,  I think if people can master their emotions and don't let it be judge, when they understand that it's not every time the other person is in the mood for what you want,  then probably, there will be less quarrels in the home.

People breakup and divorce for many silly reasons but I was reading Gary Chapman's four seasons of marriage last week and realized that it's not always going to be easy,  there will be the very sweet time and the not so sweet time but you got to work it out and don't look for the shortest cut out.

If you think your partner is not worth your time, if you think they are bad people and you think the lady or guy in the office making passes at you or that one you have allowed into your friend zone forming emotional attachment with is better off. Check it, you might be on the road to having a very complicated life.

So if you are single but in a serious relationship, don't breakup like a chicken. Make it work except you are sure it's not God's will for you. Let God take the lead so you both can make it to the altar in grand style. If you are married and you totally feel you have made a mistake, hmm!  Divorce is never the first option. Try to get help, read books go for counseling and most importantly, pray and let God know you want your marriage to work. Miracles still happen.

So when you get to the point where the tingles and sparks have disappeared, when you are not in the mood to talk, what keeps you going is the commitment you made. The meme inspired this write up. I loved it and love the writer. I hope you keep reading my blog, many exciting stuff will be posted for your edification .  Thanks for visiting. Happy New week.

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