Love will Cost You!

The increasing rate at which people fall in love these days is really alarming but i wonder why and how it is so easy to fall out of love.
Today, he is the sugar in the tea, honey and sweetpie but soonest, he somehow metamorphoses into the bitter leaf in your soup or the aloe vera of your life.
Secondary school students are already having love fights and they think they are old enough because they saw how beautiful the love was portrayed in high school musical.
Well i guess no one is too young or old to fall in love but a time will come where that love will be tested.
Its so easy to proclaim your love when everything is going as planned, when all you do is laugh and hug each other pretending you are acting Nigeria film.
Oya o, i will now meet the once upon a time, love crazed individual carrying a long face and has every bad thing to say about the once upon a time heart rob. Now i do not mean to demean their feelings because i know what happened. Life happened.
Life, full of its teasing and testing abilities, it comes with it's challenges and it changes people. Soon, when all the butterflies in your stomach dies, when there is no reason to smile, when all you see is lack and hunger, can you honestly say those words "I LOVE YOU?"
From experience, no human has such abilities, for with the experience of joy found in love comes the sting. Those who love the most feel the sting more.
Many fall in love and many more fall out of love. Parents fighting each other, relationship crashing, hearts are being broken and the eyes sheds bitter tears. Fingers are bitten and regrets plague every waking hour.
Why is it so painful to love?
Everyone might be asking that but it would have been great if we all are angels with no flaws or fault, if we all are perfect with no attitude, then the love will be pure and sweet and progressive but we all are plagued with weaknesses and only the God kind of love can love us enough to the end.
When you make a decision to love, be warned, it comes with a cost, sometimes it might mean giving your all.
I know someone who loved till death, His name is Jesus and today he has shed his love in our hearts by his Spirit so we, just like him can show love to each other and live in peace and harmony.
When love comes with its bill, would you be rich enough to pay the prize? Selah!
Radiant Pheobe © 2016.